
As tears unbidden from my poor eyes fall
I wipe them surreptitiously with your help
sobs, suppressed smiles, snot; you have seen ’em all
your wee bit does effortlessly emotions schlep
from covering heads to wiping sweat
from the Grecian times to the Victorian and the present
an integral part of dressing you have been
ne’er minding the grime or being wet
luxuriating being doused in a heady scent
often carrying billet-doux unseen!
O dear handkerchief, often your ends I have knotted
to not forget a knotty affair
and when I was foolishly besotted
I did drop you with discreet flair
sometimes it led to utterly dubious assumptions
sometimes I received the response I craved
sometimes you lay in oblivion in the dirt
I rescued you then with chicanery and gumption
my attempts at coquetry you valiantly braved
keeping you close to bosom helped whenever I was hurt
This generation knows only how to use and throw
upstart paper napkins and tissues scarce can take your place
they may be fancy and pricey and convenient on the go
your embroidered and laced appearance embodies class and grace
from being neatly tucked in my school uniform pocket
to your now delicately perfumed presence in my purse
dear handkerchief, I cannot tell you what you mean to me
whenever I leave home, you, I do not forget
through thick and thin and better and worse
you have been my companion, my best buddy.
Written for Eugi’s moonwashed weekly prompt and David’s W3 to Mich’s prompt to write an ode to our handkerchief.
Sharing at dVerse OLN.
I love all the things you can do, but these days I wonder if anyone uses handkerchiefs…. I actually long for them to be back after reading your poem…
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We still do, Björn. 🙂
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This is utterly brilliant, Punam
Such detail and emotion…
❤
David
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David, thanks so much! ❤️
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A wonderful ode to handkerchiefs, Punam!
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Thanks a lot, Merril! 😊
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You’re welcome!
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Such a great ode 💞
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Thank you! ❤️
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Wow! Beautifully done, Punam! An ode to the handkerchief… how interesting! And you did a magnificent job. This line says it all…
This generation knows only how to use and throw
upstart paper napkins and tissues scarce can take your place…
My mom used to carry a flowered handkerchief in her purse. She would let me play with it when I got bored.
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Thanks so much, Dwight. Much before the advent of smartphones, hankies did keep children occupied. 😊
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Yes, they did! You are welcome!
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Such beauty handkerchiefs have been – so personal for how we used them. Your poem brings these memories so beautifully. Makes me want to start using one :))
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Thanks so much, dear. I still use them.
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My pleasure 🙂 Oh how nice! I am not sure I have one.
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Kerchief
Your name mimics my sneeze
In dusty dry winter spaces
As The sun illuminates the dust
Suspended and unseen
Until you found an opening in
The clear story and fashioned a bright shaft
That fell upon the crack in the old oak floor
Thank you Kerchief, for that
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Your impromptu verse fits my prompt for today too!
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Wow Punam! 😮😮👏👏 Now, that is a proper ode! 👌👌👍👍😁😁 You brought the handkerchief to life! 😁
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Ken, I am delighted you think so! Thanks so much. 🙏🏼😊❤️
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You’re very welcome! 😊😁🙏
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You and your handkie have risen to the occasion with courtly (and coquettish) grace, Punam. I love your writing, and your handmaiden! A delight to read.
(My mum used to make handkerchiefs out of the back panel of my dad’s old cotton twill shirts for us (four) kids . They were very comfortable on the nose, until she began to buy him nylon shirts – luckily that didn’t last long, as they weren’t as nice and soft.) Atishoooo!
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Bless you! Yes, old shirts were excellent for hankies that could stem the flow of runny noses.
I am so glad you enjoyed this, Kathy. Thanks so much.❤️
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with chicanery and gumption: I always learn something new from you. Thanks so much. XoXo
“This generation knows only how to use and throw upstart paper napkins and tissues scarce” yeah, this generation! 🤦🏻♀️
Your ode is lovely in every respect, Punam. Thanks for sharing. Xoxo
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Selma, thank you so much for your kind and generous words. Xoxo
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Always a pleasure. xoxo
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Handkerchieves aren’t some wealthy people thing? Do you also use multiple spoons and forks? (I thought that was a upper middle class or wealthy thing).
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Handkerchieves are a very middle class thing I would say because they are reusable.
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I’m very middle class and I’ve never seen them used in my life (unless at a hokey-poke restaurant like Olive Garden) 🤨 Even by older people. Most people here use paper towels and napkins and when they’re eating much more nastier objects, they’ll use the restaurant handkerchiefs (if they’re not nasty) and will put it in a bib or on their lap or use wipes or a towel to get sauce off their hands.
There’s people that come in that are old in some of the places and young that don’t have handkerchiefs.
Now, at home, usually we use towels and rags…but those don’t leave the house. 😕
Paper doesn’t have plastics (or shouldn’t have plastics) so they’re pretty recyclable and biodegradable so they can be used (if of quality) more than once for a similar mess.
I use paper towels to hold my watercolor leftovers and they can be used until the watercolor starts lifting off.🤷🏾
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Paper napkins are biodegradable but so many trees are felled to make them. Handkerchieves are still used by a lot of people. The only problem is that they need to be washed and ironed so people use paper napkins.
Fine dining restaurants still use cloth serviettes/napkins but fast food joints use paper napkins. But those are not handkerchieves.
We do use paper napkins at home sometimes but prefer towels where possible. 🙂
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I understand that, but there’s many ways to get paper from trees without cutting them down. There’s so many agricultural scientists that have improved their technologies to grow more trees and not cut down the whole tree.
It’s also a lot better than clearing land for cotton fields or using chemicals to make other fabric forms (which are funnily still expensive). Unfortunately nowadays, handkerchiefs and napkins from companies today still have unnecessary chemicals in them.🙄
I guess still are both better than nothing.☺️ I think you can also make something of a handkerchief with cotton yarn with crochet or similar. I wanted to do that, but I only have acrylic yarn.🤮
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Of course! With the help of technology things are improving.
But we are talking about a small cotton square cloth used for wiping sweat or runny nose. And not necessarily store bought! 😀
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😂 Most people don’t know how to sew, knew, crochet, or do similar. Are your handkerchieves not storebought or do you pick the cotton, (steps in between) chop it into stuff, and make it into a handkerchief or do you buy fabrics and just cut them up? (I mean, people do that with canvases so that would make more sense.)
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Yes, most people don’t. For my husband I buy readymade hankies. For myself and kids I buy fabric and make. Sometimes I embroider and put a lace around, sometimes it is a plain piece of cloth. 😊
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https://valaalta.co/blogs/writings/why-millennials-and-gen-z-are-switching-to-handkerchiefs
And here. If it makes you feel better, or not so much. There apparently are younger generations using this. 🤷🏾 But I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s more because there’s plenty of kids with old parents. I am one.
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👍🏼
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A faithful companion! (K)
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Wow Punam, you are a true wordsmith and the queen of WP prompt. I am truly honored to have you write such amazing ode for my prompt. The way you played with the words, the line drops, the stress, and most importantly the story telling – truly a work of a genius poet.
And oh, i should mention too that it was so thoughtful and brilliant of you to end this ode with raising awareness on the use of the tissue paper which is not good for our environment, versus the hanky.
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Mich, I am humbled by your compliment! How could I not try to write my best for your lovely prompt! ❤️I am delighted that you like it. Thank you so much for your generous praise. 🙏🏼❤️🌷💖
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And i am truly honored to see you write for it..thank you Punam🌹
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Always my pleasure. ❤️🌷
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So it is.
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Excellent take Punam. The hanky has been elevated to the position of a loved friend, a confidant.
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Thanks so much, Sadje. It is a trusty companion.
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You’re most welcome! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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Punam this one is perfection!!!
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Val, thank you! ❤️❤️
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Very good. As nowadays tissue paper replaced the handkerchief and plastic bags replaced baskets and cloth bags. How pollution increased by all stuff and yes the pampers replaced the cloth neckers. We use disposable items which are not easily despised and make pollution all over the earth emotions replaced showoff gestures. World is changed inadequately.
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Thank you.
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A true ode, Punam. Such romance! I had no idea how to tackle this aspect of the challenge until just now. You brought your handkerchief to life.
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Thanks so much, Tanmay! I enjoyed writing this one. 😊
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Lol! I never had this ever-helpful hand-maiden. The sleeve of my shirt was always good enough 😉
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Haha! Like my son.
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I absolutely love this! Such fun and wonderfully done, Punam 💕🙂
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Harmony, thanks a lot! 🙂❤️
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Wow! What an amazing piece, Punam! Brava!
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Eugi, thanks a lot!
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Most welcome, Punam.
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this was an amazing piece poonam!
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Thanks a lot, Kunjal.
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Not a trace of snot in sight! You had me so baffled at first, ha ha! 😀 I was like: oh, something must have happened to Punam’s handmaiden cause she’s clearly the type of lady who has one! Then I realised it was an ode to your handkerchief 🙂 Such a fun read ❤
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I apologise for causing the bafflement! The title was a bit misleading. 😅
So glad you enjoyed it, Sunra. ❤️😊
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Ha ha! You are most welcome ❤️
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Excellent my friend! Touched by words as well as the image!
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Thanks so much, Meenakshi. Good to see you after a long time.
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Yes, lost touch with everyone for sometime.
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Will visit your blog soon.
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Oh this is incredibly gorgeous …. and makes me doubly glad I have saved so many of those embroidered heirlooms. Cheers to you!
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Yayy! So have I, Helen! Thanks so much.
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Love this ode! I think this write could renew the life of the hanky.
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That’s very kind of you to say, Heather! Thank you. ❤️
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You are sincerely welcome.
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mastery sis, I still use a wide collection of hankies and my linen serviettes … no throw away paper waste for me!
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Thanks, sis. Same here. 👍🏼🙂
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naturally 🙂
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Goodness this is gorgeous!! I am speechless and in awe 🥂💕💕
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Sanaa, you are very kind! Thanks so much! ❤️
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luxuriating being doused in a heady scent
often carrying billet-doux unseen!
A handkerchief doused with perfume and wrapped within a love letter an act close to the heart! Great wordcraft Punam!
Hank
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Thanks so much, Hank!
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Excellent poem and our poor handkerchief takes all our nonsense. Nice embroidery. A lovely post.
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So they do, Kamal. Thanks a lot.
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You are most welcome Punam ❤️
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Stunning piece Punam!
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Dearest Gab, thanks so much! 🌷❤️
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hello Punam, I have chosen you as Poet of the Week …
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Dearest Mich, thanks so much for the honour! 🙏🏼❤️
Yayy!! 😀🤗❤️
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I so love your ode❤️🌹
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❤️❤️🌷
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Hi, Punam! Hooray ~ you’re the new W3 PoW!
I’ve emailed you at pu…05@gmail.com with “next steps” … but if you didn’t receive an email from me (sometimes it goes into spam), please email me at:
DVDBGMLNY at GMAIL dot COM
Thank you ❤
David
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Hooray!! 😀
Thanks so much, David.❤️ Just responded to your email. Please let me know if I need to elaborate upon it.
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I am now rummaging in my bottom drawer looking for my old linen handkerchiefs. Away with the paper tissues! Congrats on this wondrous ode 🌹
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Wise choice. Thanks so much, Lesley. ❤️
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This is one of the best poems I’ve read in a long time. A very eloquent ode full of wit, humour and a little pathos. Really well written!
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Nitin, you are very kind. Thank you so much. To be honest this kind of writing is my comfort zone. 😊
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