
It is time to hail the dead end
the closed doors and lack of opportunities
It is time to accept that a dead end often points to another path
sometimes more scenic and fulfilling than
the one you had set your heart on
detours; forced or voluntary
open windows into the unknown
it may or may not happen serendipitously
but there is no accompanying drama
of thunderstorm, lightning or celestial prophecy
it happens unobtrusively, quite quietly
pushed willy-nilly into teaching high schoolers
was like being thrown into the cage of a hungry lion
except that they were a bunch of forty antsy teenagers
and I, the object of their curiosity
I became the lion in the enclosure
to be watched and poked at
after those initial days of hiccups
we did grow together; the teacher and the taught
learning as I began teaching
being enriched while enriching lives
and the job that I never wanted
changed my life forever
and continues to define me even after I quit
enfolding me in a warm embrace of fuzziness
dead ends are not full stops; they are but semi colons
not glaring red but flickering soft green
which you may miss if you blink
next time you are up against a wall
pause, don’t give up and look around
believe me you will find a chink.

Written for Sadje’s wdys, David’s W3 to Deepthy’s prompt and Eugi’s moonwashed weekly challenge.
Also sharing at dVerse OLN.
Love your story and specially the positive attitude in life: dead ends are not full stops; they are but semi colons. We make the best of what we are given, smiles.
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Thanks a lot, Grace. Glad it made you smile.
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Nice one, Punam! “the job that I never wanted/changed my life forever”: how often it happens that what we think will be grueling becomes a blessing, the lion becoming a lamb.
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Thanks a lot, Dora! Teaching truly became a blessing for me. I learnt an important lesson; be open to all possibilities.
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Oh boy….Thank heavens for that dead end for that is how we met.
The influence you have had on those antsy teenagers (yours truly being one of them) has changed their lives …so much for the better.
(Hugs hugs and more hugs)
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Thank you for sharing your story of how the job you didn’t want changed you. I love the contradiction of “dead ends are not full stops; they are but semi colons.”
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The things we share for prompts! 😅
Thanks a lot, Merril. I loved my stint as a teacher.
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It’s wonderful that you loved it! My husband did, too. (He still teaches math part-time.) And our daughter took a year off, but she just returned to teaching, 6th grade English.
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Teaching is very fulfilling and rewarding. I left my job when I got married and shifted to Delhi. Then the lure of sailing with my husband, kids and so on kept me away from it. It’s wonderful your husband still teaches part-time and your daughter teaches too. Sadly, we don’t have that kind of work culture here… it’s either full time or not.
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He was full-time in public high school, but the part-time is as an adjunct at a community college. I don’t think there are many part-time positions at high schools, but colleges often have adjunct professors.
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Good job doing 3 in one!
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Thanks a lot, Brandon. 😊
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Punam I adore that you were able to combine all the prompts in a cohesive and coherent (not to mention inspiring) poem. Bravo! ❤
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Val, I always appreciate your encouraging feedback. Thank you. ❤️
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Such a lovely read, Punam ❤ I love this whole stanza, it's so wise and beautiful:
"detours; forced or voluntary
open windows into the unknown
it may or may not happen serendipitously
but there is no accompanying drama
of thunderstorm, lightning or celestial prophecy
it happens unobtrusively, quite quietly"
As a fellow teacher, I found this so relatable 🙂 ❤
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Thanks so much, Sunra! Teaching is so rewarding and I am very glad for the experience. I am so glad you found it relatable. ❤️😊
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ooh we do think alike, and I bet those students will never forget you!
I learnt very young that when doors close, often slammed in my face, that something much better awaits me. I have numerous examples but the most recent one was the trip I just did … as 3 doors closed on modes of transport I was left with no choice but to drive my own little car 11,000 km. Best experience I could ever have 🙂
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Yayy for you!!
Oh, they do sis, and I love them too!
One of them has commented here. 🙂
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that is impressive, congrats … you will return to it one day no doubt once your ‘baby’ flies the coup 🙂
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Sadly, can’t return. It is a miracle if young deserving people get unemployment, there is no room for older people. Ironically, we as a country don’t know how to tap into unused resources. Schools won’t hire me for even part time voluntary services. 😏
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ouch, that’s shocking … they are crying out for volunteers of any kind here.
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It is. Red tapism at its worst.
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but an ex-teacher would be so valuable, so many skills … sadly I’ve been confronted with similar waste of professional skills … appalling really!
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Truly appalling, sis.
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A dead-end is not the end, the door maybe locked, but we have the key in our pocket and upon opening allows a new light to shine in …🤗💕🌏
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Absolutely, Ivor. 💙🤗😊
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Oh boy….Thank heavens for that dead end for that is how we met.
The influence you have had on those antsy teenagers (yours truly being one of them) has changed their lives …so much for the better.
(Hugs hugs and more hugs)
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Ahh, Shiwani! Believe me I too am so grateful for that! Lots of love and hugs to you.
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I love this poem and appreciate the message.
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Jenna, thanks so much.
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Another way of interpreting the, dead-ends is that, you need to find something else that will work, and, it activates our brains, when we hit a, dead end, that way, our mind stays, active, and, we won’t develop dementia when we’re, elderly.
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You are right. But I was barely 21 at that time and the thought of dementia had not crossed my mind.
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Excellent blending of prompts, Punam! Dead ends are signs to seek a new path, IMO.
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Absolutely, Eugi! Thanks so much.
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You’re welcome.
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This is a wonderful take Punam. Words of wisdom, encapsulated in beautiful verses. Thanks for joining in.
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Thanks a lot, Sadje. My pleasure.
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💜💖
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The hardest think to acknowledge is it’s a futile fight, and yet we march on nonetheless.
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Do we have any other choice.
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Semi colons…what a wonderful comparison. Yes we need that pause. (K)
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We certainly do. Thanks, Kerfe.
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Beautiful and lovely post Punam. It’s nice to be teaching. Fulfills your life.
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Kamal, thanks a lot. Grateful for your time here. 🙏🏼❤️
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You are always welcome dear Punam. Have a great week ahead 💘
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🙏🏼❤️😊
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💖💖💖
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Beautiful thoughts . All prompts are woven so nicely, Punam.💖
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Thanks a lot, Jane. ❤️
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Welcome, Punam!❤️
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Some wonderful life lessons here, Punam! ❤️
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Thanks a lot, Ingrid. ❤️
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I adore how you connect learning to hiccups. Life is just like that, one learning, or hiccup, after another. Gorgeous piece, Punam. ❤️
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I totally agree, Jeff. Thanks so much. ❤️
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Beautifully written with a great message “yes don’t give up and you will find a chink” Thanks for sharing.👍
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Thanks so much, Priti. 🙏🏼
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My pleasure 🥰 do visit my blog 😃 also
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Sure, Priti, I am sorry I have not been able to do so lately. 🙏🏼
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No problem 😊 please
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wow, Punam! 40?? Our max class size is 30 – and that feels like a lot to me! I loved learning a bit more about your life 🙂 ❤
~David
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Yes, David! Anywhere between 35 to 40.
Always an open book. 😀❤️
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Nice pun!
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😀
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Thanks for making dead ends seem beautiful!
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Aditi, thanks a lot. ❤️
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A terrific poem with an inspiring final verse.
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Keith, thank you ! Much appreciated.
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Absolutely inspiring! I love how you wrote an ode that tells a story and teaches a lesson. Very clever and beautiful writing, Punam!
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Thanks a lot, Deepthy. I am glad you enjoyed it. Thanks once again for the prompt.
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I have seen so many dead ends in my life. Some have been known to precede such very fruitful opportunities.~
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Thanks, Larry, for validating my views.
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My teachers set examples, guided me, supported me, inspired me. I am quite certain you did as well.
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Helen, good teachers do all that and more. I hope my students feel the same as you do about your teachers.
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Nice lines written by the poet 👍👍
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Thanks.
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Very clever of you to combine two unrelated pictures and come up with a wonderful concept linking the two. Wise words reflected in your poem Punam. Good one, as always 🙂
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Vignesh, thanks so much. Always humbled by your appreciation. 🙂
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Welcome 🙂
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Love your writing and message there are no dead ends.. Nice Punam💞
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Thanks so much, Cindy. ❤️
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Indeed❣️
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Hi, Punam ❤
I just want to let you know that this week's W3 prompt, hosted by Steven S. Wallace, is live!
Much love!
David
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Hey, David. Thanks for letting me know. ♥️
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❤
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