
A recurring nightmare often
jolts me awake most nights
I am hydra-headed and being chased
by a throng of haranguing hats!
The sum of all the things I do
all the roles that I intend to play
each one vies for the top spot
which will be the chosen one of these hats!
A mother, a wife, a cook, a poet
or actually just a general dogsbody
some fit, some give me a headache
I try not to play favourite with my many hats!
I try to slip into each effortlessly
most times I falter, sometimes I don’t
I wish I were a dexterous multitasker
juggling with the multitude of hats!
What empowers me is also my vulnerability
but my vulnerability gives me strength
how I am perceived with each, is the problem
not with wearing a one too many hats!
’tis not easy to keep balancing
for I can’t pick one at the drop of a hat
I promise I am not talking through my hat
uneasy surely lies the head that dons too many hats!
Written for dVerse poetics. Today’s host, Mish, says: Maybe you have that hat, still worn today or tucked away for sentimental reasons. Maybe someone you know has donned an unforgettable hat, a memorable piece of their identity or personality. Pay homage to the hat in a poem.
Metaphorically, we’ve worn the hats!! Child. Parent. Grandparent. Career. Poet. Friend. Use one as your muse.
OR you can approach the idea of a hat to symbolize something even more abstract. Are you wearing a hat of forgiveness, reflection, self-pity, support, adventure, hope, bravery, justice, generosity?
I can so relate. Well done.
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Despite how difficult it can be, we women become, excellent, jugglers, because, life requires us to be.
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That is the plain truth. Thanks for adding your voice.
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Oh I love this fantastic poem on hats. Well done Punam
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Thanks a lot, Sadje.
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You’re welcome my dear
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Probably one of the very best I have read of yours, for the flow, rhythm, tone….but underneath that delightful verse is philosophy and empathy — the vulnerability… stunning thoughts.
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Ain, I so treasure your words of encouragement. Yeah, that vulnerability comes through pretty often.
Thank you.
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In my younger days I could definitely identify with this! Love the image in the first stanza – being chased by hats.
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Ah! So I can look forward to some respite as I grow older. 😀
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Seems like a circus at times, doesn’t it?
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Most of the time, Bo, tbh.
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When the hats are too many, give ’em away 😅 Quite impossible too I guess. What a revealing poem. It’s true, too many responsibilities can sometimes weigh our abilities down. I even often wonder how women manage it.. from key parenting duties, to sometimes housework, then on to professional work, acts of kindness, some blogging/writing or chatting/calling or both… it’s an endless list. Women are simply unique and powerful because they just manage it.
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Lamittan, of I could, I would gladly give away a few! 😅
I am not complaining but sometimes it gets too much.
Thank you.
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Of course you aren’t complaining 😄It’s a speaking poem and I cherish it, dear. Feel most welcome.
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“uneasy surely lies the head that dons too many hats!” Some hats you gotta let fall. Sometimes. Lest we drop from juggling too much. This is so relatable. Thanks for letting me read it. So impressed. xo
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Simply amazing on the Juggler with his juggling hats. Superb poem, Punam.
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Wonderful poem and illustration, Punam! I especially love the final verse!. Very clever incorporation of idioms and old phrases. ❤
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WOW-Good, as usual! I may have to try this challenge…
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Oh, please do!
Thanks, always.
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You’re most welcome!
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Absolutely true… So intrinsically put.. I often feel so blessed for our multitasking abilities.. Loved it dear.. 🙏🏻🤗👍🏼😇👌🏼👌🏼…
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Thanks so much, my dear. 🤗🥰
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I love this honest take on the hats we wear, we do it so sincerely , mostly “try to slip into each effortlessly”, in imperfect human ways and perfect heart ways – an incredible task of this lifetime really. I enjoyed your poem thoroughly 🙂
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I am happy that it resonated and you enjoyed it, Pragalbha. 😊❤️
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I certainly did 🙂
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very clever juggling but it’s that last paragraph that resonates deepest … the humorous play on words 🙂
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So happy that you enjoyed the jugglery, sis. 🙂
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totally, kudos!
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This one made me think of the Dr. Seuss book “The 500 Hats of Bartholomew Cubbins”… Love the message that too many hats makes it hard to wear any one well….
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Oh, I loved that book, Val! I have only a few hats and not 500, moreover no one is going to reward me for handing over my hats! 😉
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What empowers me is also my vulnerability
but my vulnerability gives me strength ♥️
Beautifully penned Punam. More power to you.
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Saliha, thank you so much, my dear. 🙏🏼❤️
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You are welcome ❤️ ❤️
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You have my heart with this poem, Punam 😀 I dare say you wear all those hats nicely 💝💝
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Ah! That’s very sweet of you, Sanaa! 😊 Thank you. ❤️❤️
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I totally identify with this Punam 🎩 🧢 👒😅❤️
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I had a feeling you would, Ingrid! 🥰😀😅
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😅
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A glorious use of language, my dear Punam. Ending stanza = amazingness. ❤️
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Thanks so much for your amazing compliment, Jeff! ❤️
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It’s always my pleasure, dear Punam. Always! ❤️
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