Today a young, successful actor in India committed suicide. The reasons are not known and maybe will never be actually known.
The room is full of people; clinking glasses and laughter
I have thousands of followers on twitter
everyday I get so many likes
my whatsapp is always buzzing
but I am feeling so empty inside.
I have an opinion on everything
my insta is updated every hour
I Photoshop my pics to my liking
I follow all who matter in the showbiz
but why am I so unhappy tonight?
My parents are simple people
I am too ambitious for them
my bff too is a small town person
who wants to be bigger than me
I have scores of work friends
we hang out everyday after work
but I have no one with whom
I can share all that troubles me.
I have to be ahead and better
I can not lose this race
I have to beat others at any cost
I can’t bear to be a laggard
I have to have all I can have
and then some more to top it up
but whatever I have acquired till now
gives me no pleasure any more.
No one knows the real me
no one cares for my feelings
no one can hear when I cry within
No one has time for me
I myself have completely lost touch
with the person I actually was.
I want to lie down for a while
I want to cry my heart out tonight
I want to scream and be heard
I want answers to my whys
But most of all I want to be just me
I am tired of not being me
I want to curl up and die.
Ah, you really touched my heart Punam. This is a powerful and beautiful piece. But sweetheart I want you to be ok. I am sending you plenty of love 🌺💕🌸❤️
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I am fine, Gabriela. I am truly touched by your concern. But a young life gone so soon…it does make one introspect.
Thanks a lot, my dear. And your love gratefully received.❤️🌷💕
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Wow this cuts deep with insights beyond the superficial and meets us where we are hurting.
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I guess we are all hurting and react to the pain differently. Thank you so much, Kathy.
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The news of the suicide is tragic. I am so sorry to hear of this loss. The poem speaks to the empathy and pain you feel. My prayers!
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It is very sad when a young, fairly successful person decides to end it all. Thank you so much, Barbara, for your prayers and kind words.
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I lost a boyfriend and a brother-in-law to suicide. There are only victims when people end their lives. Those who do it suffer, and those who are left with the loss and grief never forget, continue the suffering.
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It is so hard for everyone. I am sorry for your loss. The hurt and pain never go away. If only there was some way to reach out before it is too late!
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Sometimes it helps to reach out, yes. But we can’t feel responsible if we were not there to help. I felt guilty but realized I couldn’t control everything. I have managed to dissuade others from harming themselves.
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Yes, even though we feel guilty, it is not possible to be able to be present every time. We also have to learn to forgive ourselves for missing the signs or not being there. It doesn’t help our mental health if we keep feeling guilty.
Thank you so much, Barbara, for sharing your thoughts.
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Thank you, too!
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Mental Health is such an important issue. We live in a world that appears so connected that we don’t always deeply connect and see what is happening below the surface. You’ve done a great job of highlighting this.
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You are so right…despite the connections we remain disconnected and the disconnect from reality can drive one over the edge. In India, we brush under carpet mental health issues. This should be a wake up call for all.
Thank you, Heather.
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You are welcome.
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You have perfectly described the sadness and loneliness of fame Punam and the leeches and parasites who cling and feed off it. 😢
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Yes, Christine…handling fame and its paraphernalia is not easy.
Thank you, dear.
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Punam….you conveyed the meaning through your words. It was such a shock. Sushant was the least of actors someone thought would commit suicide. He was so young, so full of life, and what not?! Your poem brought the emotions of an unsettled mind to the front. People feel so suffocated under all that glamour….💔
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Indeed Ishita, it is very shocking! So sad too!! What seems like a glamorous life is actually so full of uncertainity. Thanks, dear.
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It is….many murky waters are behind all the glamour…
My pleasure❤
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Precisely. People are lonely. I’m watching a documentary about Janis Joplin. Same thing.
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Yes, same thing. Fame and loneliness are a dangerous cocktail.
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They are.
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These things keep getting sadder and sadder. I don’t even know what to say.
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Very sad, indeed.
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You addressed the reality behind ‘stardom’ – sad for many celebrities – famous yet face loneliness.
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Stardom is a lonely place and it is so sad.
Thanks for reading.
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A sad poem Punam. Tragic death.
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Very tragic, Sadje.
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👍
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Haunting and tragic. Sadly a narrative felt by so many young people in these times of social media. A beautifully written poem💕
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Yes, indeed! Thank you so much. ❤️
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I’m still shocked by the news of Sushant’s passing. He was such a promising actor. 2020 keeps getting worse and worse. 😢
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Yes, Satyen. It keeps getting worse.
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Wow. So powerfully written.
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Thanks, Ruth.
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Today, I am really shocked. Whenever I saw him in some cafe or Gym. I always saw him guy full of energy and always smiling. You never know what behind. I think it’s very necessary to take mental health seriously. Specially in todays time. Beautifully penned dear.
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Very shocking and such a loss!
Thank you so much, dear.
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Such a sad poem. It touches on the problem of being an actor – they are always presenting a fabricated persona in the films and sometimes they lose touch with who they really are. Some turn to alcohol, others drugs, and some become so lost that they can’t carry on. Such a sorrowful thing. Your poem captures that so well.
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I guess living up to the fabricated persona can be overwhelming. It is very sad when someone decides to end their life. Such a loss!
Thank you so much.
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Whatever the reason – it’s truly sad news. Unfortunately, media doesn’t connect us in the same way as human (personal) relationships does. People are simply lonely.
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So they are, Victoria! More so in the world of glamour! Any life lost in this manner is sad.
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a touching tribute to a troubled young star … so many ‘famous’ die about 30 yo.
Makes one question if there is a vacuum inside left from the glittery show of their superficial careers … ‘superficial’ meaning pretending to be what they are not … they do have huge financial and fame rewards that ring hollow …
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I agree, it is the pretend life that causes so much heartache and leads to extreme steps.
Any life lost before time is a sad loss.
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absolutely!
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I had read about this as well, so tragic when a young talent is gone. Your words capture so well the pain of being alone amidst people.
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Any life lost in this manner shows how as a society and community we fail. Fame is a bloodthirsty mistress!
Thanks, Irma.
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Oh wowza, this is gripping, Punam–suicide is always sad. I’ve made several attempts–it’s a horrible place to find yourself; and if you survive, people are not usually kind–they’re angry, judge you “selfish”, on and on–oblivious to how deep and sharp the agonizing misery. You wrote this so well ❤
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I am so happy your attempts were unsuccessful!! We all have our reasons and which are right for us. But it is such a sad loss for everyone.
Sending you lots of love and hugs and so happy to have you in my life. ❤️🤗
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Oh, you are a blessing, dear Punam 💕💟💖🤗
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“I am tired of not being me.”….that one place is, where nobody should find himself in. What happened yesterday was really sad. I hope people bring out mental health issues out in the open more freely.
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Yes, Radhika. It is extremely sad. No person should find themselves in such a situation. We should tackle this issue head on.
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Thank you so much for writing this! It’s sad that we all know what the world is coming to and still most of us are unsure as to how to fix it or figure out our place within this chaos.
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It is very sad. There is no quick fix. We need to be more empathetic.
Thanks, dear.
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True that!
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So, so sad- still not able to come to terms
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Yes, indeed Shantanu. Shocking.
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I know
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One has such a wide platform . Talk to people on internet to get rid of ones anxiety or depressed state.
May his soul rest in peace.
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Indeed, there are various venues to reach out! But who can know what goes through a troubled mind!
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True that is. 🙂
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Sitting alone in the darkness, i shall think…
What have i got and what do i want…
For I came alone and alone shall I go….
Across the wilderness, there may be a thousand stones…
Di I turn them all, did i see underneath…
Whom shall i blame..whom shall I curse…
For I am alone and though shall i remain…
Nor for this world, not for the skies, better not for anyone…
I remain in me and aloof for all..
Even though the path now is dark, dismay and grey
But i shall find my light at the end of the way…
I have got this life…which so many would dream of..
Then why shall i shut it….in a path low and high.
I shall fight, I shall win, and I shall be the guiding stars even for a sin.
I will win, I will win….yes I will win
” Amit Bhat “
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Excellent! Love your poetic response and the flow!
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The word Suicide in itself is so horrible and painful, not for a person but whom he leaves behind.
I have gone through this experience with a very close friend and trust me I didn’t cry a tear. But i cried for his 2 children.
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It sure is extremely damaging for those left behind. I shudder to think what must be going through the tortured mind just before the deed.
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Whatever it is..not worth.
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😔😔😔😔😔…. So so well and aptly put.. 💕
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🙏🏼❤️🌷
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