Forgiving is not easy but I forgive you
All those years of putting up with your temper,
It has left scars, I’ll not hold it against you.
I thought my love would change you
But you were not ready to change
Forgiving is not easy but I’ll forgive you.
I was loyal and committed to you
You never trusted but called me names
It has left scars, I’ll not hold it against you.
Always raging against the world and me too,
Expecting me to fight your demons too
Forgiving is not easy but I forgive you.
Blaming others for the faults in you
Playing the victim while victimizing me,
It has left scars, I’ll not hold it against you.
No one is responsible for your life but you
But you used me as your punching bag,
Forgiving is not easy but I forgive you,
It has left scars, I’ll not hold it against you.
Oh wow! I REALLY relate to this. It describes my own experience exactly. Formidable poem. Truly great
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Thank you so much. What can I say? I am touched by your kind words.
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You are welcome.
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Beautiful and relatable…..to be forgiving is a gift. Helps u to heal and move on
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Thank you so much. You are right, it is a gift. But it does not come easily. When it finally does, it is truly liberating.
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I agree
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Wow… Forgiving, a way of self-healing.. well done dear.. 😘💕🙂
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Awww! Thanks Debika. 🤗🤗
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😘💕😊😇
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To forgive isn’t easy.If you can then you are indeed strong.
Beautifully expressed in words Punam.I bet many readers will relate to it including me😊
You gave words to our pains today and also passed strength through your pen🤗
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That is such a huge compliment, Yasmin. I am humbled by your words. 🙏🙏
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😊🤗
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Challenging type of poem, well done!
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Thank you so much for reading and commenting.
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I’m not sure I could be that kind of forgiving person, scars do last forever…….
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It is not easy to do so, Ivor! One would have to be a saint to be able to forgive all but one has to try…
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Ahhhh, then I’m definitely no saint… xx
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Nor am I! 😊
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It’s very difficult to forgive but as they say the path to healing is through forgiveness
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Yes, indeed! Thank you so much, Megha.
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sadly the tale of too many people’s lives … we need forgiveness to heal … but they need to take responsibility as adults, and I pray it will happen one day soon!
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I’ve been in that type of relationship… Even my brother acts this way. It’s hard to forgive when so much pain is built up inside, but it’s better to forgive, understand why they are the way they are and move forward with greater insight. This really touched the soul, P.
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I agree, it is very difficult to forgive some people but for our own well-being, we have to try. The pain doesn’t go away easily but one has to begin the process of healing from somewhere. Thank you so much, dear B.
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You’re very welcome. 🙂
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You are great. I would not be able to do that.
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Thanks Sadje, one has to try, even though it’s difficult.
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You’re welcome 😉. You’ve right buts it’s a difficult thing to do.
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It sure is! 😐
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👍
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I wish forgiving was easier…it’s been a confusing concept for me. As a Christian, I know the Bible commands that I forgive–and I’ve done it by my will, a million times over. But when something triggers the old wounds, it feels like I’ve not forgiven truly. For awhile I thought I’d figured it out: that the painful memories are completely separate from my earnest and sincere “forgiving by my will”/prayers (however you want to say it). So I remain confused…and broken within. Your poem is beautiful–of that I’m not confused 🙂 ❤
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Is this a pantoum? Sorry, I don’t know that intricacies of different forms very well… but whatever type of form, the content is poignant. Forgiveness is not easy, but maybe sometimes the only way forward because the alternative…. I’m not sure what that does to you in the long run either. Brilliant poem Punam ❤️❤️
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It is not a pantoum, Rachel. I am sorry I can’t recall what form it is!! I always make the mistake of not writing the name of the form along with the poem!
Forgiveness is never easy and I don’t think one forgives completely ever. But then keeping all that hurt, anger etc is not good either. So one tries one’s best.
Thank you so much, dear. ❤️❤️
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The problem is, there are some things that scar irrevocably, and whether we forgive or not does not erase them. Love it how your poems make me think…
Hope you’re having a lovely weekend ❤️❤️
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I agree, Rachel. Writing about it is easy but the scars that remain are a harsh reminder of the pain and thus, perhaps, the process of forgiving is not complete. I admit I am hardly as noble as the poem sounds.
I hope your weekend was wonderful too! ❤️❤️
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Can’t believe the weekend is nearly over already!!! ❤️❤️
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Yes, for you it almost is! For me, still about eight hours left! ❤️❤️
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Ahhh the weekend is still quite young for you! It’s strange being so far in the future sometimes!
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Yes, it is! 😀
I agree, it does seem so strange!
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As said forgiving is the wat of self-healing! Well done, my friend.
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Thank you so much, Moushumi.
If you have time do read my post इश्क/love. I think you will enjoy it.
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I will be right there.
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Awesome post!! Raw, powerful and beautiful!!!
xoxo
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Thanks a lot, Chuck!
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💖🌹✨😁
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Thanks
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✨✨💖
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Oh wow Punam…forgiving is not easy but we need it…
You wrote it in such a way that i felt its easy though…and that is something reallu special about this poem.
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We do need it, Mich! It seems easy written like this but we must keep trying.
Thank you so much for your heart warming words. 💞
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I love the hint that the forgiveness is ongoing as it swirls back and forth, but that there is no grudge or bitterness, moving on.
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Thank you so much, Paul. Life becomes easier if we can move forward without rancour.
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It sure does
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Thanks Sadje.
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