In the hierarchy of everything
social to religious, political to domestic
I am always given the short shrift
ain’t I a woman, I am chided
I have no rights in the scheme of things
the advocates of equality
gloss over everyday inequalities
calling them minor blips
when I raise my voice, I am gently
but decisively reminded
disturbing the serene albeit
murky waters of status quo
will leave me sullied and muddied
but they don’t know
I have never shied from getting my hands dirty.
Love this. It’s so true. Everyone talks about equality, but when it actually comes to moving aside to do that, the entitled bunch gets reluctant.
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Exactly! Thank you so much, Satyen.
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Powerful.
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Thank you!
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My pleasure.
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It is tragic that in this 21st century equality is still just a dream.
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It sure is! But we cannot give up, can we!
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No reason to
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We’re reading each other’s thoughts.
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Oh, I am sure yours are better than mine.
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I wouldn’t be so sure.
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Utterly frustrating.
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Oh, it is!
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Good one! A great message.
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Thanks, dear Sadje!
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A pleasure 🙏
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Well done and well said!
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Thank you so much!
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Loved your choice of words.. Bold one.. Kudos.. 👍🏼😌🙏🏼👌🏼💕
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Thank you, so very much! 🤗💞🙏🏼
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My pleasure re.. Always.. And you know that.. 😌🙏🏼💕
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Everyday inequalities… you are so right. I love these lines:
disturbing the serene albeit
murky waters of status quo
Everybody seems to find those waters much easier to navigate. Challenging the status quo… much more tumultuous…
Nice one my friend ❤️❤️
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It is challenging, so people don’t do anything! Thanks a lot, Rachel. ❤️❤️
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the advocates of equality
gloss over everyday inequalities…these lines really got to me, so TRUE. And the whole bit about “raise my voice”…wow, you’ve really nailed this one!
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Thank you so much, my dear! Truly appreciate your words of encouragement. 💙
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Oh you’re most welcome–your words WOW me 🙂
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💙
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:)<3
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It’s a long fight ……..but worth getting the hands dirty
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Oh yes, certainly!!
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😊🌼
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its like we are living in the Dark Ages, equality still an issue
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Sadly, it still is, Gina!
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equality was always a misnomer, there will always be the oppressors and the oppressed, and then there would be people getting their hands dirty. Inequality gifts a purpose to life, a trigger to evolve, the ones who dont will get eliminated, eventually
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The balance of this world hangs in the imbalance. Inequalities will always be there in some form or the other for those who want to evolve.
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I am having difficulty in deciding who is the wise one here, calls for a judge of equal proportions
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Till you find one, let this hang in limbo!
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the limbo has produced great friendships, lets not find one
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Excellent idea! To friendship 🥂
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🍻 not 🥂 , let’s not make it more romantic than it already is 😛
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Hahaha! I don’t like beer, that’s all! 😂
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Developing a new taste is an essential part of friendship, btw I am ok with anything that has alcohol, or maybe we should start with some platonic pinot noir
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Platonic pinot noir sounds good! Developing new tastes is good for life in general but then one chooses to go with what one likes.
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Great, thats what I needed, another dominating friend! drinks wise, that is..
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Good…you qualified your statement..
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haha..I should have tested it without the qualifier, blame it on Tuesday slowness
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Haha! That’s a good one! 😂
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This makes me think about how people are quick to say they support a cause, but are the last ones getting in line to do something about it. Change takes action and few are willing to step up and challenge the norms of society. I love this poem, Punam! It shows you have courage to point out the flaws in the system and say “we need change”.
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So true! It is easy to pay lip service but to do something about it needs time and effort as well as upsetting the apple cart. Thank you so much, dear for reading and adding to it. ❤️
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You are so very welcome, my friend! Enjoy your day! ❤️
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You too, my dear! ❤️
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it requires massive time and effort, the frustration is endless … so I lead by example!
Biggest bug is the miserly wages for same and often better work …expected to do all the cleaning, childcare etc etc etc The laws around DV, rape and incest are prehistoric .. made by men for men etc etc
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So many things need to change and I agree about miserly wages. Wage parity is a must. The laws as well as mindsets need to change regarding dv, rape, incest and other sexual crimes.
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it’s all too appalling and seldom changes or even slides backwards … what is wrong with humanity looking after each other!
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It is so frustrating, Kate! Makes my blood boil.
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me too and you expressed that put down so well!
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Thanks a lot, dear.
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welcome sis!
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❤️
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My mom once told me that even if I become the prime minister of India some day my in laws will still treat me inferior to everyone in their family.And the sole reason is because I am a woman
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So true! I wonder when things will change.
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I am gonna treat my both daughter in laws as I treat my sons.And I will teach my sons to do the same
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Bravo! We have to be the change that we want! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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