It’s 3.00 p.m, she sits in the kitchen
chopping vegetables methodically and mechanically
her tea sitting neglected and undrunk
a faraway look in her eyes as she ruminates
the transition had not been smooth but was necessary
the decision making had been left to her
she did not regret she chose her brood over career
but today some random thoughts make her feel antsy
her resentment rises like bile, choking her
shocked at such un-motherly thoughts
she takes a tub of ice cream out of the freezer to them
smothering them with hugs and kisses
to assuage her guilt-stricken conscience
seeing unadulterated pleasure in their eyes, her eyes brim with tears
who ever said motherhood was easy!
How true this scenario is. Motherhood asks for a lot of adjustments and sacrifices.
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It sure does! Still, I wouldn’t trade it for anything!
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A mother’s feelings! ❤️
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❤️
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Ohh.. How true..!! It happens dear.. So spontaneous.. So relatable.. Loved loved.. 😔🙂💕💕
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Thanks a lot, Debika! I guess we all go through the guilt trip. 💞🙂🤗
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Equally.. 😟
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There’s something of a bit like this, I wrote two years back.. Titled ‘Denesting’ perhaps.. Let me check and whtsp you.. Though my work was too simple.. Lol.. 🙈😆😆
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Pls do. Both of us write in simple manner, Debby. 🤗🤗
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So true!
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Thank you! ❤️
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Absolutely, no one said motherhood was easy and for those that say it is must not be a mom! So many hard decisions that we second guess over on many occasions. I adore being a mom and would not trade this life for any other, even on the days when I pray for a moment alone without hearing my name😂😂
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I agree totally! Thank you so much for sharing your insight. ❤️
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You are on a roll with the hard-hitting posts dear friend. The guilt that goes hand in hand with motherhood can be so intense…. And often unfounded. Generally we just do our best but at the end of the day even mum’s are human too… And children often don’t see the reason behind the kisses and icecream they are just super grateful for the kisses and icecream! ❤️❤️
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Yes, mostly it is unfounded. And I say, thank god for the kisses and ice cream! Thank you so much, Rachel. ❤️❤️
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You are so welcome. I loved this! ❤️❤️
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❤️❤️
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Even though my son is grown and now has his own family, my tea still goes cold while I cut the vegetables! Loved this delightful poem about motherhood 🙂💕
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Yeah, I get that! Thanks a lot, Christine. 🙂💞
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I like the way you/she handled the thoughts. There are several other, darker places she could have gone. I appreciate your willingness to share, Punam.
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Thank you so much, Li. Yes, I agree it could have gone to darker places. But as a mom, I didn’t want her to go that far.
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Relatable. I tried writing sth similar, then was pulled away. I will…ond day.
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I do hope you write about it. Motherhood impacts us all in the same, yet subtly different ways.
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Quilt is a complex feeling… I used to have many episodes of guilt while caring for Carole….. wishing to be free of the task, and to be living my own life……… but joy of her smiles keep me loyal and true………
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Yes, Ivor…guilt is very complex and sometimes makes us better human beings. There is no denying Carole was very lucky to have you. ❤️
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Oh!! Now my eyes brim with tears. This was written so beautifully and truthfully…❤️❤️
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Thanks, Irma… from one mom to the other! ❤️❤️🤗
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Story of many hearts – ❤️❤️
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Indeed! Thank you! ❤️
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My absolute favorite ❤️❤️
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🙏🏼❤️
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stunning powerful writing, you are indeed on a roll … parenting is the toughest job on earth .. if there was a right way it would have been published and circulated by now … hang in there for more hugs and kisses ❤
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Parenting is tough if one bears in mind the fact that they are raising the next generation to take care of mother earth and carry forward ethical values. If only motherhood was not deified and we could make small mistakes without guilt.
You are right, hugs and kisses make it so worthwhile! Thank you so much Kate. ❤️
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no guilt, it’s a waste of energy … resolve not to do it again and move on … there is no ‘right’ way just your way 🙂
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It sure is…I do move on after just that twinge of guilt…you are right…I’ll do it my way! 🙂❤️
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I just loved this one.
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Thank you so much, my dear.
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I am always being asked how can I give up being a doctor.I always say I chose being a mother to an autistic kid over being a doctor.But people still don’t understand.And that makes me uneasy.But as you said once I look at my kids I just ignore all those questions 😊
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Yasmin, we will always be questioned! But it is our life and we choose what is best for us. I have stopped caring about what people say. Take care and hugs, my dear. 🤗❤️
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🤗❤️Thank you!
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❤️🤗😘
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That explains why we used to get unexpected treats out of nowhere, the guilt conscience 😀
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Mothers are easy to figure out. 😀
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Guilt is a great motivator, especially for parents, our kids did very well 🙂
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This touched my heart ❤️❤️
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I know, my dear! As mothers we are often swamped with guilt. Thanks a lot Sakshu. ❤️🤗
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So true …….the pleasure was mine Punam 😊❤️
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Lovely poetry!
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Thank you so much, Sonia.
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Hi, would love for you to check out my blog and let me know what you think ☺️
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