It’s that time of the year,
When you let bygones be and forgive.
But before I seek forgiveness from all,
I’ve to learn to myself forgive.
I have to master the art of forgiveness,
Before I grandiosely plan to forgive others.
So embarking on self-discovery is necessary,
Before I point fingers at others.
I forgive myself for being an ignoramus
But pretending otherwise.
And for tilting at imaginary windmills,
When I should have been wise.
I forgive myself for judging everyone,
For jumping to quick conclusions,
For at times playing the blame game,
And meaningless discussions.
I forgive myself for thinking I am always right,
As well as for trying to make others accept my point of view.
I also seek forgiveness for judging self too harshly
And for often biting more than I can chew.
I forgive myself for being stingy with compliments,
And for trespasses committed unknowingly,
For being tartly condescending,
Of those who are different from me.
I forgive myself for being at times
Arrogant, vain, smug and dismissive
As well as for occasional bouts of gluttony,
For being lazy and sometimes overtly submissive.
And as I enumerate all the reasons,
I should forgive myself for follies of mine,
I realise forgiving others is easy
To forgive self one has to be divine.
So, I leave the task of forgiving me
To all the people I know,
But since it’s Christmas time
I forgive all friends and foes.
Very well written Punam. It is important to forgive oneself and forgive others, to have long-term peace of mind.
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Punam
Well written as always. But RF, as she pointed out; ‘To forgive self, one has to be divine’
It’s very difficult to forgive self.
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Thanks Deepak. That is what we have to strive for.
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Thanks Rajeev. Your post was the inspiration for this.
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Reblogged this on paeansunpluggedblog.
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Beautiful Punam. Yes forgiveness is not always easy. Both of ourselves and of others. Well stated my friend
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Thank you Lorraine. Yes, it is pretty difficult.
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very well written! We are all guilty of such misdeeds and need to forgive in order to grow 🙂
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Thanks Kate.😊
You are right, if we want to move forward we have to let bygones be bygones and self-flagellation does not help much.
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self-flagellation is downright destructive!
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So it is.
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By tomorrow you will receive the answers. 😊
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lol super busy the next three days so it wont be posted until Monday, sorry
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Hehehe! Then I will send it on Sunday.
Enjoy your weekend Kate. 😊
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thanks so much … or send it when you’re ready and gives me time to sort it, and don’t forget some photos please?
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Okay ma’am, as you say! 😁
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